"I think at first there's always this urgency, because once you find out you have cancer it seems like within hours you're into something else, I mean, the doctors don't wait, they don't say think about it for two weeks, I mean, it's a matter of hours or days, I think that's one thing that I found unusual I had to make these decisions fairly quick sometimes without consulting my family because they're not always readily available for these kinds of family discussions.
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